and deepen your capacity for intimacy
Ken Page, LCSW
Recorded April 16 - June 18, 2015
Are you tired of shallow dates, dehumanizing dating websites, fleeting connections and endless detours that prevent you from discovering the love you deeply want?
Your dating journey can actually be fulfilling, authentic and fun AND bring you lasting, life-changing love when you utilize the transformational methods of Deeper Dating.
There is abundant research that shows that having a supportive, healthy love partnership leads to more happiness than a great job or lots of money. It’s really at the core of a fulfilling life, which is why we spend SO much time and energy pursuing it.
However, the world of dating can often feel like a soul-sucking waste of time. And too often, it doesn’t lead us any closer to our dream relationship with a beloved life partner.
It’s easy to get cynical or withdraw or blame it all on the modern dating marketplace (or worse, yourself!), but the truth is that another way IS possible – one that makes the journey more enjoyable AND transformational, as well as more likely to lead to the real love you want.
The journey begins with letting go of most of what you’ve learned about how to “impress,” “win over,” “attract” or “seduce” your life-mate.
The problem with all of these typical strategies is that they tend to be based on a psychology that tells you that being a successful dater searching for love successfully means being inauthentic or only leading with your “most desirable” traits. You are busy trying to impress someone... by not being fully you.
You might find yourself desperate to get in shape, dress better and try harder – in other words, fix yourself – to finally “win” the dating game and get the man or woman you want.
This subconsciously sends a signal to the parts you feel insecure about that they’ll not be fully loved if your prospective mate discovers them.
This leads to even more insecurity AND less ease and enjoyment.
And the worst part is that you discover that this whole approach tends to attract people who aren’t good for you – and you end up repeating the same dissatisfying patterns of the past.
It’s time to learn a more authentic, heart-felt and vulnerable approach to dating – one in which you make every moment an opportunity for becoming more nakedly, beautifully, powerfully YOU.
In other words, dating becomes a journey of self-revelation in which you discover and share more about your true self in the context of getting to know the true self of others.
As you shift to this deeper psychology of dating, you end up with many unexpected benefits (even if someone is not your life partner, they might become a life-long friend). You laugh more. You realize that you CAN be loved, desired and appreciated for being you.
Most importantly, you come to understand that what you thought were the “warts” you had to hide from others in order to be loved are actually the very parts of yourself from which you have real and enduring gifts to give.
Your relationship wounds shift from being obstacles you carefully avoid to doorways into unconditional love and unexpected blessings for yourself AND others.
And you find yourself developing the real and nourishing foundations of intimacy, building the foundations for the love you truly desire.
Going Beyond “Packaging”
Most dating strategies instruct you to improve your “packaging” – to create a pleasing but inauthentic facade to “make” others love you.
Not only do these techniques fail time and again, they also tend to amplify your attraction to exactly the wrong type of person and increase the likelihood that you’ll repeat painful scenarios of the past.
Following the old rules of dating means devaluing your deepest Self – and that results in repeating old, unhealthy patterns!
So, how do you instead create a path to love that can lead you to deep intimacy AND allow who YOU truly are to come forth?
Psychotherapist and bestselling author Ken Page, LCSW, has developed proven methods for helping you navigate the dating world as nothing other than yourself. Drawing from the latest findings in psychological research and spiritual practice, he will guide you to see the power you have to change your romantic future – by bringing the magic of your unique core gifts into your search for love.
According to Ken, the path to a loving relationship is about something much more profound, essential and life-changing than you’ve ever been taught – that the parts of your personality that you think you must fix in order to find love are usually the keys to finding that love!
During The Deeper Dating Course, Ken will take you on a step-by-step journey to reprogram your beliefs, habits and attitudes around dating. And, the beauty of this journey is that the focus will NOT be on fixing yourself – it will be on honoring and expressing your innate gifts.
This shift changes everything. Instead of holding the whip of self-improvement over yourself (as many of us have spent so much time doing), you will learn to value, trust and express who you really are.
By bringing the magic and aliveness of your core gifts into your search for love, you can take your dating to the next level of soulful depth, exciting discovery and vulnerable authenticity. And these are the real keys to finding love.
The concepts, practices and approaches you’ll learn in this course are not gimmicks, but rather the deep lessons of intimacy – the very insights that you’ll use in your next relationship to nurture and grow the love that you’ve always desired.
Ken will help you unravel your old beliefs about dating and illuminate a path to love that is authentic, fulfilling – and a lot more fun.
During this brand new, cutting-edge 10-module program you’ll receive life-changing insights, such as:
- How to discover your own unique core gifts (the key to finding lasting love and deepening the intimacy in all of your relationships), and how to lead with those gifts in your dating life.
- How to develop romantic and sexual attraction to people who are good for you.
- The greatest lessons of conscious dating: How to tell the difference between your “attractions of inspiration” and your “attractions of deprivation” – and how to only pursue those who are best for you.
- How to protect your new relationships from the most powerful and common saboteur of new and healthy love.
No matter what your age or circumstances, no matter your body type or the challenges you face – these lessons apply to your life. And please note that this course welcomes people of all sexual orientations and gender identities.
The Power of a Skilled Guide
Ken Page is a true master of this work. His Psychology Today articles have received explosive response, being read by millions, and his writings have received striking acclaim from experts like New York Times bestselling author and 18-time Oprah guest, Harville Hendrix, and worldwide bestselling author of The Soulmate Secret, Arielle Ford, who said about Ken:
If you are truly ready for big, heart opening, lasting romantic love, I highly recommend Ken Page’s work. His step-by-step process guides you to discover your deepest intimacy gifts, the great key to finding true love and keeping it alive.
– Arielle Ford, Author, The Soulmate Secret
Until meeting Ken Page, we, at The Shift Network, were never inspired enough to accept the opportunities we’ve had to sponsor dating or "soulmate" events. But Ken is the real deal – he’s not only an acclaimed psychotherapist, he’s also a soulful guide who offers a perspective that turns dating into a path of liberation.
And his powerful insights and practices can turn around an area that is often painful and disheartening – and yet SO important – since nothing is more core to our happiness, health, and even longevity, than finding and sharing real love. In fact, many research studies show that if a person is in a healthy, supportive relationship, they are more likely to have higher self-esteem and lower anxiety. People in loving relationships even have a lower death rate compared to single people.
The truth is that if you approach the journey of dating and finding your soulmate with more soul and genuine self-love, you will blossom into greater happiness by yourself AND attract the kind of inspiring partnership that mirrors and supports who you truly are.
The world of dating can either keep us cycling in outdated stories or provide the jet propulsion we need to live into our truest self and deepest love. The key is knowing how to approach it, which is what Ken is masterful at teaching.
If you want lifelong love with a partner who truly adores you, this course offers you the skills and insights you need to make a turnaround in your whole approach to love.
What You’ll Learn in These 10 Modules
In this 10-module course, Ken will guide you to see the power you have to change your romantic future – by bringing the magic of your unique “Core Gifts” into your search for love.
Each teaching session will build harmoniously upon the next, so that you’ll develop a complete, holistic understanding of the practices, tools and principles you’ll need to illuminate and sustain a path to love that is authentic and fulfilling.
Module 1: Deeper Dating
Your New Path to Love That Lasts (Recorded April 16)
In this first session, you will be introduced to the life-transforming Deeper Dating approach. You will learn why your age, looks and life-circumstances matter far less than you have ever been told, and why the fastest path to love is not about fixing yourself, but about discovering and sharing your deepest gifts. You will be introduced to the four stages of the Deeper Dating process, and you will learn how to transform your search for a relationship into a journey of healing, self-discovery and love. You will also discover how to access your Gift Zone, the very source of love within you.
In this session, you’ll learn:
- Why longing for love is a sign of wisdom, not weakness.
- 4 foundational research findings which reveal a wiser path to love.
- Why self-improvement often leads us away from love, not toward it.
- Why looks, youth and success matter far less than the true skills of intimacy.
- 3 tools for making your search for love profoundly more effective – and much less painful.
Module 2: Discovering Your Core Gifts
(Recorded April 23)
In this session, you will learn to discover, name and embrace your own Core Gifts; the very heart of the wiser search for love. Core Gifts are your points of deepest sensitivity, the parts of you where life touches you most deeply. We often think we need to suppress hide or fix these points of great sensitivity, but the very reverse is true; they are the bullet train to authentic love and they hold the key to our greatest inner beauty and capacity for love.
In this session, you’ll:
- Identify two of your most essential Core Gifts, and see how these gifts have shaped your relationship history – and your entire life.
- Learn how your insecurities and vulnerabilities reveal your greatest gifts.
- Learn to recognize your Core Gifts in both your greatest joys and your deepest heartbreaks.
- Discover how honoring these Core Gifts can change your entire search for love – and the quality of your life.
- Learn about the Gift/Wound Matrix, a new and liberating way to understand your life story and your intimacy journey.
Module 3: Learning to Lead With Your Deepest Gifts
The Direct Path to Love (Recorded April 30)
Most of us have spent much of our lives trying to get our deepest gifts to line up in a neat row and follow our orders. Until we learn to listen to the radical wisdom of our deepest gifts, we will continually sabotage our relationships and ourselves. In this module, you will learn how to honor, listen to and work with the great treasure of your own Core Gifts. As part of this session, you will begin to create your own Gift-Circle – a life-changing experience where the people who love you most help you see and understand your own Core Gifts. When you learn to honor and share your Core Gifts, you will have discovered the single greatest magnet for healthy love.
In this session, you’ll learn:
- 6 essential tools for honoring and expressing your gifts
- What your Core Gifts need from you.
- The lesson almost no one teaches you about self-love.
- How to let your Core Gifts lead you to romantic love.
- How to create your own Gift-Circle.
Module 4: Leading with Your Soul
The Key to Finding a Soulmate (Recorded May 7)
When we come to understand our Core Gifts, we often feel profound relief, a sense of breakthrough and often deep emotional shifts. These shifts often form the basis of a completely different future in our relationships. Based on current feedback from the entire class, Ken will highlight and discuss the deepest themes and challenges which are emerging for group members, and offer guidance and direction in integrating these profound and wonderful changes. In this class, you will learn two exquisite brief meditation processes which will help you receive inner guidance and direction in your own search for love.
In this session you’ll:
- Explore why your Core Gifts have been the source of pain and insecurity in past relationships and how to heal that pain in your present life.
- Learn to discover your own guiding insights; messages from your deepest self that have the power to transform your life and your search for love.
- Create a five-minute spiritual practice which taps the power of your yearning for love.
- Learn to understand and navigate the changes which are beginning to occur in your own dating life and intimacy journey as a result of embracing your Core Gifts.
Module 5: Your Romantic and
The Heart of the Matter (Recorded May 14)
Our romantic and sexual attractions – and what we do with them – shape our entire search for love, yet we are given almost no training in how to work with or understand these powerful forces. We cannot control our attractions, but we can educate them. And our attractions can also educate us – teaching us some of the deepest lessons of our intimacy-lives. You will learn an entirely new understanding of how to work with your romantic and sexual attractions.
In this session, you’ll learn:
- “Attractions of Inspiration” vs. “Attractions of Deprivation” – the most important lesson in your search for love.
- Why our strongest attractions are often to people who are not good for us.
- How to become attracted to people who are good for you.
- How your attractions – both positive and negative – can help you understand yourself in much deeper ways.
- The single decision that is almost guaranteed to transform your relationship future.
Module 6: The Seven Skills of
Deeper Dating (Recorded May 21)
In this module, you will learn the most important tools of Deeper Dating, each of which is designed to transform your dating life into a path to personal empowerment and deeper love – an adventure of growth. You will learn how to bring the power, authenticity and magic of your Core Gifts right into the day-to-day reality of your search for love – and into all your relationships. You will develop a “toolkit” of skills which will help turn your dating life into a true adventure of intimacy.
In this session, you’ll discover:
- The 7 most important skills of Deeper Dating.
- Concrete Deeper Dating skills specifically designed for online dating, dating events, social gatherings and day-to-day life – with checklists, suggestions and exercises for each of these venues.
- How to create a personal plan for your intimacy journey, using your own deep intuition.
- To move closer to real love by engaging in “mindful field trips,” which will illumine old intimacy-sabotaging patterns and help you create new ones.
Module 7: Discovering Your Sexual and Romantic Core Gifts (Recorded May 28)
Each of us has unique sexual and romantic Core Gifts. When we learn to name and embrace these gifts and understand the insecurities that may surround them, our romantic journey becomes infinitely richer. In this module, you will discover your own sexual and romantic Core Gifts, and learn specific tools and techniques for deepening your sexual, romantic, emotional and spiritual connection to partners who are good for you! Exciting research findings and current intimacy theory offer us tremendous opportunities for bringing greater passion, erotic joy, tenderness and humanity to the way we love.
In this session, you’ll:
- Discover ways to embrace two of your essential sexual/romantic Core Gifts.
- Receive specific research-based techniques for developing and intensifying sexual and romantic connections with a partner.
- Expand your capacity to work with attractions that threaten to knock you off balance.
- Learn two powerful questions for bringing deeper humanity, love and sexual depth into your relationships.
Module 8: Taming The Great Saboteurs of Healthy Love (Recorded June 4)
We are taught to see fear of intimacy as a problem to be fixed, yet the truth is that fear of intimacy is simply a condition of being human. The issue is not whether we have fear of intimacy; it is what we do with that fear. Every single one of us has patterns wherein we push away love, often without even knowing it. At the heart of each of these patterns is a deep gift waiting to be seen, protected and finally liberated. In this class, you will learn to name and understand the biggest factors that have kept you from love, how to handle them with more compassion and how to navigate them in new ways. Using current feedback from the entire class, this class will be an “intimacy clinic” and will offer guidance on the greatest challenges and breakthroughs class members are experiencing.
In this session, you’ll:
- Learn about “The Wave” – the single greatest saboteur of healthy new love – and what to do when it hits.
- Discover and describe your own “flight patterns” – the ways you consciously and unconsciously protect yourself from the heat of love.
- Use the skills and tools you have learned to create a loving plan for healing and changing these patterns.
- Learn the greatest antidote to fear of intimacy.
Module 9: Claiming Your Own
Intimacy Vision (Recorded June 11)
In this course, you have made a passionate commitment to one of the great missions of your life: the search for your life-partner. As part of the course, you will have touched the very deepest parts of your being. In this class you will acknowledge and consolidate your deepest learnings, and look at your entire intimacy journey with new eyes. Finally, looking at your entire relationship history, you will articulate your single greatest intimacy challenge and find the great gift that lies at its core.
In this session, you’ll:
- Learn how to use the powerful and simple AHA technique to profoundly deepen intimacy in your romantic relationship, or any relationship at all.
- Articulate your own “next brave step” in your search for love.
- Identify sources of support for your deeper journey into intimacy now that the course is moving toward conclusion.
- Create a clear and inspiring vision of the wise, loving person you are becoming.
Module 10: Loving and Being Loved
into Fullness (Recorded June 18)
In this final module, you will reflect on all of your learning, growth and changes during this course. Through a set of powerful and evocative exercises, you will deepen your understanding of your most essential Core Gifts, and acknowledge all the love in your life; past, present and future. You will leave this session with a sense of all the intimacy gifts you already have and of the profound power of love within you.
In this session, you’ll:
- Find new ways to express your intimacy gifts and negotiate the wounds and challenges that surround them.
- Share with other class members the Core Gifts you have seen in them and be told about the Core Gifts other classmates have seen in you.
- Receive deep personal guidance from your own truest Self – and your loved ones – to help you take concrete next steps in your deeper path to love.
The Deeper Dating Course Bonus Collection
In addition to Ken’s transformative 10-module virtual course, you’ll also receive these powerful training sessions with the world’s leading visionaries and teachers. These bonus sessions are being offered to further complement what you’ll learn in the course – and take your understanding and practice to an even deeper level.
Your Search for Love as a Path to Enlightenment
Audio Dialogue with Andrew Harvey
In this interview, Andrew Harvey, one of the worlds greatest scholar-mystics and teachers will explore the ways in which you can turn your search for love into a journey of profound, life-changing spiritual growth. You’ll discover how your relationship to your sexuality and to your romantic self can become a portal to deep revelation, service to humanity and your own connection to the Divine. He will teach exercises and practices that will help you transform your dating life, sexual expression and search for love into a pathway to your own illumination and the healing of the world. Everyone who seeks both love and spiritual evolution will value these profoundly moving insights from one of our greatest teachers of enlightenment.
Andrew Harvey is an author, speaker and founder/director of the Institute of Sacred Activism, an international organization focused on inviting concerned people to take up the challenge of our contemporary global crises by becoming inspired, effective and practical agents of institutional and systemic change, in order to create peace and sustainability. He has written and edited over 30 books and received many awards, including the Benjamin Franklin Award and the Mind Body Spirit Award.
The 3 Most Powerful Spiritual Practices For Everyone Seeking Love
Audio Dialogue with Arielle Ford
In this heartfelt and practical session, Ken is joined by worldwide bestselling author Arielle Ford, one of the most renowned teachers and visionaries in the spiritual search for love. Arielle and Ken will share the spiritual practices which have helped them most in their search for love, and the practices they recommend most highly for everyone seeking a loving and lasting relationship. Ken and Arielle describe the effects of these practices in their own lives and the lives of their students, but more importantly, they teach these practices to you, the listener. If you would like to develop a personal library of practices to speed and enrich your search for love, you will find it here.
Arielle Ford is a leading personality in the personal growth and contemporary spirituality movement. For the past 25 years she has been living, teaching, and promoting consciousness through all forms of media. She is a gifted writer and the author of eight books including Wabi Sabi Love: The Ancient Art of Finding Perfect Love in Imperfect Relationships and the international bestseller, The Soulmate Secret: Manifest The Love of Your Life With The Law of Attraction. She has been called “The Cupid of Consciousness” and “The Fairy Godmother of Love.”
The Inner Healing That Leads to Love
Audio Dialogue with Margaret Paul
In this inspiring dialogue, Margaret Paul, Ph.D. and Ken will each share their most essential insights about the inner healing that leads us to healthy, soul-filling love. This hour-long event is filled with exercises, instruction and insights, so that listeners have a chance to learn and experience the life-changing practices Margaret and Ken will reveal. Margaret will share the life-transforming work of Inner Bonding, which creates profound inner healing, making us ready for the deep joy, radical vulnerability and tremendous challenge of true love. Both Ken and Margaret will share the insights which have inspired them most deeply in their own personal journeys and shaped their work most powerfully. A not-to-be-missed dialogue for everyone interested in a deeper understanding of love and personal growth.
Margaret Paul is the author/co-author of several bestselling books, including Do I Have To Give Up Me to Be Loved By You?, Inner Bonding, Healing Your Aloneness, The Healing Your Aloneness Workbook, Do I Have To Give Up Me to Be Loved By My Kids? and Do I Have To Give Up Me To Be Loved By God? Margaret holds a Ph.D. in psychology and is a relationship expert, noted public speaker, workshop leader, educator, chaplain, consultant and artist. She has appeared on many radio and TV shows, including The Oprah Show. She has successfully worked with thousands of individuals, couples and business relationships and taught classes and seminars since 1967. Margaret is able to access spiritual Guidance during her sessions, which enables her to work with people wherever they are in the world. Margaret is passionate about helping people rapidly heal the root cause of their pain and learn the path to joy and loving relationships.
Bringing Deeper Wisdom to Online Dating
Audio Dialogue with Julie Spira
There is an endless supply of advice about online dating, but remarkably little insight into how to bring our deepest self – the unique magic of our authenticity – into the online search for love. With the current explosion of new opportunities to find a loving relationship online, it is essential to learn tools and skills to navigate the online world with heart, soul and even a sense of adventure! In this one-of-a-kind dialogue, Ken will speak with Julie Spira, America’s Top Online Dating Expert and Digital Matchmaker® about where to look online to find people who share your commitment to personal and spiritual growth. In this discussion, you will learn skills, tools and techniques to help you harness the tremendous power of the internet to find a partner who touches you spiritually and emotionally. We will also talk about how to create an experience of inner emotionally safety as you learn to navigate the wild and relatively new world of online dating.
Julie Spira is known worldwide as a leading online dating expert and dating coach. She’s the author of the bestselling online dating book, The Perils of Cyber-Dating: Confessions of a Hopeful Romantic Looking for Love Online. As a dating expert and coach, Julie’s advice has reached millions. Julie Spira has received numerous awards and honors including being named one of the “Top 10 Columnists to follow on “Twitter” and was listed as one of the “Top 100 Most Influential People in Social Media” in Fast Company. and was named one of “America’s Ultimate Experts” by Woman’s World magazine. Julie sits on the board of several non-profit organizations in Los Angeles and was the recipient of the WOW (Wonderful Outstanding Woman) Award by JBBBS in Los Angeles for her philanthropic and mentoring work in the community.
What Graduates of The Deeper Dating Course are Saying...
I was deeply moved over and over again during the Deeper Dating Course with Ken as he lead me/us into the core of my most intimate self just waiting to be treasured. I am inspired to be my depth of authenticity and present that in my relationships. I KNOW now that intimate romantic love relationship is at my doorstep to be discovered just as all my core gifts are. Ken you are a heart centered,clear and generous guide for love and relationship. I relished the time with you and my fellow community.
– Susann Taylor Shier, Santa Monica, CA
I benefitted enormously from Ken Page’s Deeper Dating class. I believe the work has and will continue to help me in my search for a healthy relationship. The work around core gifts in and of itself is valuable to me personally and will benefit all my relationships.
– Amy, Erie, PA
This course helped me shine the light on something precious in myself that had never been fully honored in my past relationships. I have made a commitment to let that light be my guide as I move forward into new types of relationship. Ken was a sensitive, powerful guide in this process, and I will always be grateful for his teachings.
– Toni, CA
The Deeper Dating course with Ken Page has been life altering. For most of my life, the very aspects of myself that I was ashamed of and felt were my flaws, Ken came to teach me, we’re in fact my ’core gifts’ to the world. And these gifts are to be celebrated: instead of hidden on my path to finding my true love, they can lead my way to a man of character who will appreciate their beauty and uniqueness. I now feel I have a blueprint to an improved life in which I feel more empowered and confident, with a deeper sense of myself. Thank you Ken.
– Helen, Australia
I am absolutely thrilled to tell you that I have met the most amazing man....he legitimately seems to be the man for whom I have been waiting for a very long time. He is intelligent, charming, sensitive, loving, tender, giving, caring, sincere, honest, open, and an amazing communicator. I could go on and on. We have had some of the most intimate conversations I have ever had in my life. I honestly didn’t know it could be this wonderful... I have to say this possibility in my life is a tribute to all of the work I have been doing with you and my classmates. What I have learned is love is a journey and I need a partner that appreciates my gifts and wants to love me for every part of me. By exposing and living these gifts, I know I am more confident and attractive, which has allowed for this relationship to evolve.
– Stephanie B.
The course gave a clear language to patterns in our lives, not only romantic aspects, and identified better ways of interacting with others to achieve our goals.It changed what we are told and perceive to be our "flaws" into our essential life affirming, and deepest assets, and gave methods to keep those "gifts" in focus for ourselves and others we relate with.
– Michael S., Philadelphia, PA
Ken’s compassion and expertise in this sensitive area of finding love based on attraction of inspiration included ideas and suggestions completely new to me. I felt engaged as I don’t when just reading someone’s book; it was a highly interactive course.
– Carol Browning, Ashland, OR
Deeper Dating helped me to dig deeper within myself, examine who I am in relationship & how to bring my grounded, authentic self to the foreground without sacrificing my values. Staying confident & playful without being judgmental or overbearing. Keeping myself intact while supporting & encouraging my partner.
– Donna, CA
The course basically help me to be open about my emotional experiences and share it with others with my tears and be willing to go on with the example of others. I know that I’m not alone to search for love in such a profound way that Ken thought us. I love Ken for his humanity and understanding and for his effort to help other people. If I have the possibility to continue I would not hesitate for a minute.
– Jana Plchova, Saint Barthélemy, Guadeloupe
This course...was a revelation in its intimacy. (And I was actually listening after the fact, as I could not listen on the actual day.) I experienced a heart transmission from Ken, is the only way I can put it, and was able to experience a new tenderness toward myself. Getting beneath my self-criticism to find a Core Gift; understanding the Wave of Distancing and the difference between a Relationship of Attraction and Inspiration – all these are invaluable concepts, that I wish I had understood years ago! Despite the fact that dating is not my main priority at this time, the self-understanding has been a gift.
– Barbara, Orillia, Ontario, Canada
Here’s What You’ll Receive
Ten 90-Minute Recorded Class Sessions with
Experience a rare opportunity to be mentored and learn with renowned author and psychotherapist Ken Page – from the comfort of your own home. Each class session will help you create the specific skills and abilities to change the way you think about dating and relationships forever.
PDF Transcripts of Each Class Session
In addition to the high quality MP3 audios, you’ll also receive the entire class transcription in PDF format after each session is completed. This way you can review, print and highlight the most important insights and practices that you’ll learn.
Exercises and Questions for Each Lesson
After each lesson you will have the option to do related exercises and/or answer questions in order to accelerate your learning and integrate each session.
The Deeper Dating Course
- Your Search for Love as a Path to Enlightenment
Audio Dialogue with Andrew Harvey
- The 3 Most Powerful Spiritual Practices For Everyone Seeking Love
Audio Dialogue with Arielle Ford
- The Inner Healing That Leads to Love
Audio Dialogue with Margaret Paul
- Bringing Deeper Wisdom to Online Dating
Audio Dialogue with Julie Spira
An Unprecedented Opportunity to Join The Deeper Dating Course
We, at The Shift Network, feel deeply honored that Ken Page has chosen to partner with us on this exclusive online training. As you may know, this is a rare opportunity to learn directly from an author and renowned psychotherapist whose powerful insights and pioneering work are helping us bring dating to the next level of soulful depth, exciting discovery and vulnerable authenticity.
Through this powerful online format, you’ll not only save time and money on workshop costs (plus travel, accommodations and meals – which would cost thousands of dollars), you’ll also be able to benefit from Ken and his guests’ incredible teachings and exercises from the comfort of your home, at your own pace!
If you are serious about transforming your dating life and accessing your “core gifts,” then you owe it to yourself, your loved ones – and our world – to take this one-of-a-kind training.
If you’re ready to take the next step in evolving yourself, click the register button below to reserve your space now.
More Praise for Ken Page...
If you are truly ready for big, heart–opening, lasting romantic love, I highly recommend Ken Page’s work. His step–by–step process guides you to discover your deepest intimacy gifts, the great key to finding true love and keeping it alive.
– Arielle Ford, Author, The Soulmate Secret
Deeper Dating is a beautiful journey into deeper intimacy, an inspiring and important guidebook for everyone seeking authentic love.
– Judith Orloff, MD, Author, The Ecstasy of Surrender
A unique and brilliant contribution. Chock full of practical wisdom as well as tender care. Highly recommended!
– Edward Hallowell, M.D., Author, The Childhood Roots of Adult Happiness andDriven to Distraction
Deeper Dating is counter-intuitive, and it is among the best manuals for succeeding in finding and keeping love we have seen. According to its author, the core attractor for the person best suited for a great love is the part of you with which you may be most uncomfortable: your vulnerability and authenticity. He explicitly votes against a presentational self attempting to make an impression. Not only does he encourage you to leave your defenses at home, he shows you with many illustrations and exercises just how to prepare for the ultimate relationship with someone who is just right for you.
– Harville Hendrix, Ph.D. and Helen LaKelly Hunt, Ph.D., Authors, Keeping the Love You Find and Making Marriage Simple
Seduction gurus’ beware! No more manipulations to trap a partner! Deeper Dating shows you how to attract the love of your life by discovering and being your authentic self. Finally a true roadmap to finding true love!
– Margaret Paul, Ph.D., Author/Co-Author, Healing Your Aloneness, Inner Bonding, Do I Have To Give Up Me To Be Loved By You?, Do I Have To Give Up Me To Be Loved By God? and co-creator of Inner Bonding
Ken’s exciting new paradigm for building personal relationships is not for singles only. I was a happily married gay man when I discovered his ‘system’ for turning weaknesses into strengths and it continues to inspire and inform my relationships with my husband, my friends and family alike.
– Rev. Mel White, Bestselling Author, Stranger at the Gate
Deeper Dating was a revelation for me. [Ken’s] enlightening book helped me to see how the way we go about dating deeply influences the kind of relationship that will emerge. If you desire a soulmate, lead with your soul. Show your core gifts of vulnerability and authenticity and you’ll find a partner who does the same.
– Chip Conley, Author, Peak and Emotional Equations
Ken Page brings two qualities to his work which are marks of an authentic spiritual teacher: The first is an extraordinarily developed spiritual and prayer life which gives his insights a very special personal authenticity. The second is a superb understanding of the processes of psychic and spiritual growth toward maturity. The combination of these two qualities gives his work an inspiring authenticity.
– John J. McNeill, Author, Taking a Chance on God
Deeper Dating presents a fresh, truer, better take on finding love. Every paragraph sparkles with some new gem of insight about how to transform the journey of seeking a soulmate into an experience of first embracing one’s true self. Ken Page’s work has touched my life deeply: he is an unparalleled, gentle, wise authority on the topic of finding love. Required reading for all the people I know who are looking for love!
– Kristine Gasbarre, Author, How to Love an American Man: A True Story
Ken Page has written a masterful guide to dating that encompasses much more than the practical “do’s and don’ts” associated with this genre. A wonderful compassionate guide to loving relationships in this age of ‘speed dating.’
– David Grennan, Ed.D., Professor, Teachers College, Columbia University, Former Executive Director, Minuchin Center for the Family
Finally, a book about dating that makes you feel better about yourself, not worse! Deeper Dating is a course-in-a-book that will show you how to love yourself, and how to find others who are waiting to love someone like you – just as you are. No games, no gimmicks, just you with all of your gifts and imperfections. You will learn that you already have all you need to find the love and intimacy you always wanted. What could be better? Deeply instructive, warm, empowering and hopeful – share it with everyone who wants more love in their life!
– Susan Lander, Esq., Author, Conversations with History
This is an amazing course, It gave me insights into how I couldn’t honour myself, and therefore was looking for approval from others... expecting others to fill this void within. Having explored my core gifts, this is now a completely new game, where I can make choices that work for me:) Ken’s shares his insights and wisdom with such compassion and the process includes many tailored exercises to support the individual journey. I only ever listened to the recordings due to time zone difference, missing the breakout groups, yet the Facebook group made me feel very much part of the group and I feel deeply nourished and enriched. Thank you Ken for sharing your insights and wisdom with such compassion.
– Gudrun, UK
Ken’s approach to developing self-awareness and deeper connection with ourselves was truly inspirational. Learning about oneself at such a deep level is very empowering and fostered self-confidence and deeper presence going forward into the dating/relationship work and world.
– Sunni Gibbons, San Jose, CA
This course has brought me to whole new levels of self-awareness and enabled me to view certain aspects of myself far more positively than ever before – what’s more, I now understand the critical importance both of honoring those parts myself and of seeking a partner who can fully honor them too. This, I know, will enable me to assess potential partners far more accurately and steer me towards those with whom it is safe to bond and commit. It has also taught me so much about the nature of attraction: explaining so many of my previous relationship experiences, helping me to avoid disastrous choices in future, opening my eyes to a much wider range of attraction types than I was previously aware of, and showing me ways of developing attraction which I now know – over time and with attention & skill – can grow into something much deeper and more powerful than at first suspected. I now feel far better equipped than ever before to understand and navigate my intimate relationships in their early stages, knowing when something is worth investing in and when it’s best to walk away. All of these help me approach the whole area of dating and intimate/romantic relationships far more confident, hopeful and – crucially – skillful than ever before. Thank you Ken, from my heart to yours!
– Elaine, England
This instructor is one of the most thoughtful, authentic, sensitive teachers I’ve experienced with Shift Network. He was able to explore an intimate, often private, topic with grace and honor. I felt completely safe with him.
– Paula, Dundas, MN
I knew I needed to open my heart in order to find my soul partner. Now, I know what that means in day to day, real living. Thank you Ken!
– Jan, Indianapolis, IN
About Ken Page
Ken Page, LCSW, is a nationally syndicated columnist, psychotherapist, lecturer and author of the critically-acclaimed book Deeper Dating: How to Drop The Games of Seduction and Discover the Power of Intimacy. He is also the author of Psychology Today ’s extremely popular blog Finding Love. A dynamic, compassionate and inspiring speaker, he has led hundreds of workshops for thousands of people of all ages, backgrounds and sexual orientations. He and his work have been featured in O, the Oprah Magazine, The New York Times, Time Out New York, Cosmopolitan Magazine, The Discovery Channel and Psychology Today Magazine. He is the founder of Deeper Dating, an acclaimed event for single people committed to deeper values.
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