Ken Page, LCSW
Are you committed to finding life-changing love that lasts?
Are you tired of shallow dates, fleeting connections and frustrating detours that prevent you from discovering the love you deeply want?
Then you are in the right place. You can find lasting love and true intimacy while making the journey fulfilling, authentic — and fun and learn the life-changing skills that make your new love grow and flourish.
There is abundant research that shows people with fulfilling partnerships tend to be happier, healthier AND live longer.
No wonder so many people invest SO much time and energy into pursuing love!
However, too often, dating and other ways of meeting people don’t get us closer to a dream relationship with a beloved life partner... and the process of getting to that loving partnership can feel like a soul-draining waste of time.
It’s easy to get cynical, withdraw or blame it all on the modern dating marketplace — but the truth is, there’s a solution to all this struggle. In fact, research shows that the fastest, most effective path to real love is also the most healing and empowering. It is the path of authenticity.
And this approach actually favors those of us who are in our thirties, forties, fifties and above (Ken was married just before turning 60!) — because we are tired of the games, and committed to finding love that lasts.
No matter what your age, circumstances, body type or unique challenges you face — these lessons apply to you! And please note that this course embraces people of all sexual orientations and gender identities.
From Fixing Yourself to Expressing Your Gifts
The problem with most dating strategies, is that they tend to be based on a psychology that tells you to lead with gimmicks, games and an airbrushed version of yourself and to minimize — or dismiss completely — your precious authenticity.
You end up so busy trying to impress a potential mate, you’re not being YOURSELF!
If you find you’re desperate to get in shape, dress better and try harder — in other words, fix yourself — to finally “win” the dating game and win over the man or woman you want, you’re a prime candidate for Deeper Dating.
Traditional dating sends the signal to your subconscious mind that parts of you are not acceptable and therefore you are “unworthy” for the mate of your dreams (or you’ll never be fully loveable if your prospective mate discovers these parts).
This leads to even more insecurity AND less ease and enjoyment...
And the worst part is that this entire approach tends to attract people who aren’t good for you — and you end up repeating your same negative patterns in your new relationships.
It’s time to experience a more authentic, heartfelt and vulnerable approach to finding the love you want — one in which you make every moment along the way an opportunity for becoming more beautifully, powerfully YOU.
On this new path, you’ll discover how to let go of old beliefs... including the need to “impress,” “win over,” “attract,” or “seduce” your life-mate. Instead, your journey will become one of self-revelation, in which you’re uncovering and embracing ALL parts of yourself and sharing your true self with others.
As you shift to this deeper understanding and orientation, you end up with many unexpected benefits in ALL of your relationships. You laugh more. You develop the capacity for real intimacy. You realize you CAN be loved, desired and appreciated for being you...
Most important, you come to see that what you thought were the “warts” you had to hide from others in order to be loved, are actually gifts. And your relationship wounds are no longer obstacles to unconditional love — they’re unexpected blessings for you and others.
Plus, you find yourself building nourishing foundations for intimacy and the love you desire.
Tapping Into Your Unique Magic
So what IS this solution for finding true love that allows YOU to truly come forth?
Renowned psychotherapist and bestselling author Ken Page, has developed proven methods for navigating a more authentic path to love. Drawing from the latest psychological research and deep spiritual practices, he can empower you to change your romantic future — by bringing the magic of your unique gifts into your dating life.
According to Ken, the path to a loving relationship is far more profound, essential and life-changing than you’ve ever been taught!
In fact, the parts of your personality that you think you must fix in order to find love are usually the keys to finding it!
Beyond Fixing Yourself
During The Wisdom Path to Finding Lifelong Love, Ken will take you on a 7-step journey to realign your beliefs, habits and attitudes so that they attract real love.
The beauty of this journey is that the focus will NOT be on fixing yourself, but on embracing ALL of who you are — and honoring and expressing your innate gifts.
This shift changes everything. Instead of holding the whip of self-improvement over yourself, you’ll learn to value, trust and express the authentic YOU.
By bringing your core gifts on the journey to lasting love, you become more soulful, present and heart-centered —all irresistible qualities to a potential mate.
The concepts, practices and approaches you’ll discover in this course are not gimmicks, but deep lessons in intimacy — the very insights that you will use in your next relationship to nurture and grow the love you’ve always desired.
Ken will help you unravel your old beliefs and illuminate a path to love that is authentic, fulfilling — and a lot more fun. What you’ll learn in this course will empower you to find the love you dream of.
The Power of a Skilled Guide
Ken Page is a true master of this work. His Psychology Today articles have received an explosive response, and his writings have received the acclaim of such experts as New York Times bestselling — author and 18-time Oprah guest, Harville Hendrix, and worldwide bestselling author of The Soulmate Secret, Arielle Ford:
Until meeting Ken Page, we, at the Shift Network, were never inspired enough to accept the opportunities we’ve had to present dating or "soulmate" programs.
But Ken is the real deal — he’s not only an acclaimed psychologist, he’s also a soulful guide who offers a perspective that turns the journey to love into a path of liberation.
During The Wisdom Path to Finding Lifelong Love, you’ll see why Ken’s articles on PsychologyToday.com have gone wildly viral, his bestselling book Deeper Dating was used as reading material in a Columbia University course in family and couples therapy, and his insights have led so many people to find healthy, lasting love.
In the dating arena, which can be so painful and disheartening, his approach is truly refreshing AND revolutionary — since nothing is more core to our happiness, health and longevity than finding and sharing real love.
During this transformational 7-module program you’ll discover:
- Your own unique core gifts (the key to finding lasting love and to deepen the intimacy in all your relationships), and learn how to lead with those gifts in your dating life
- Why self-improvement often leads you away from love, not toward it
- Skills in “educating your attractions” and developing romantic and sexual attraction to people who are good for you
- The greatest lessons of conscious dating, such as how to tell the difference between your “attractions of inspiration” and your “attractions of deprivation”
- The Gift/Wound/Defense Matrix and how it applies to your intimacy journey
- How to protect your new relationships from the most powerful and common saboteur of new and healthy love
- Ways to overcome the most common saboteurs of new relationships, including the distancing “wave” that almost always arrives
- New and concrete Deeper Dating skills specifically designed for online dating, dating events, social gatherings and day to day life — with checklists, suggestions, exercises and “field trips” for each of these venues
- How to prepare yourself for the love of your life!
What You’ll Discover in These 7 Modules
Course sessions are on Thursdays at 5:00pm Pacific.
In these 7 modules, you’ll discover you have the power to change your romantic future — by bringing the magic of your unique “core gifts” into the way you date and turning your path to love into a journey of liberation.
Each teaching session will build harmoniously upon the next, so that you’ll develop a complete, holistic understanding of the practices, tools and principles you’ll need to illuminate and sustain an authentic, fulfilling love. And don’t worry if you have to miss one or more classes — you’ll receive a recording and transcript of every class.
Module 1: How to Speed — And Ease — Your Path to Love (Recorded September 15)
In this first class, you’ll discover why so many popular approaches to finding love ultimately fail us, and how the power of authenticity holds the key to finding love. You will learn why real love is within reach no matter what your age or life challenges. You will be introduced to the four stages of the Deeper Dating process, and learn how to transform your search for love into a real intimacy journey; one which is dramatically more likely to lead to real and healthy love.
- Why longing for love is a sign of wisdom, not weakness
- 6 seminal research findings which reveal a wiser path to love
- Why self-improvement often leads us away from love, not toward it
- Why looks, youth and success matter far less than the true skills of intimacy
- Why the path of Deeper Dating is so well-suited to older and more mature singles
- Some of the unique struggles faced by women seeking love
- Three tools for making your search for love both less painful and profoundly more effective
- The best way to learn to “love yourself first”
Module 2: Discovering Your Own Core Gifts (Recorded September 22)
We focus on the very heart of the wiser search for love: naming and embracing our own Core Gifts. Core Gifts are our points of deepest sensitivity to life. We often think we need to hide or fix these points of deep sensitivity, but the reverse is true; they hold the key to our greatest inner beauty and our deepest capacity for love.
In this class, you’ll:
- Discover two of your deepest unique Core Gifts, and see how these gifts have shaped your relationship history — and your entire life
- Learn how your deepest insecurities and vulnerabilities reveal your greatest gifts
- Learn the tools for discovering your Core Gifts in both your joys and your heartbreaks
- Discover how honoring these Core Gifts can change your entire search for love — and the quality of your life
- Learn about the Gift/Wound/Defense Matrix, a new way to understand your life story and your intimacy journey
Module 3: Honoring Your Core Gifts
Your Direct Path to Love (Recorded September 29)
In this module you will learn how to honor, listen to and work with your own Core Gifts. As part of this class, participants will begin to create their own Gift-Circle, a life-changing experience where the people who love you most help you see and understand your own Core Gifts.
- Eight essential tools for honoring and expressing your gifts
- What your Core Gifts need from you
- What no one teaches us about self-love
- How to let your Core Gifts lead you to romantic love
- How to create your own Gift-Circle
- Two powerful and exquisite 5-minute spiritual practices to empower and enrich your search for love
Module 4: Your Romantic & Sexual Attractions
The Heart of the Matter (Recorded October 6)
Our romantic and sexual attractions — and what we do with them — shape our entire search for love, yet we are given almost no training in how to work with or understand these attractions.
You’ll discover some of the deepest truths around your attractions:
- Attractions of Inspiration vs. Attractions of Deprivation; the most important distinction of all
- Why our deepest attractions are often to people who are not good for us
- How we can educate our attractions to serve us in our search for healthy love
- How our capacity for deeper attraction increases as we age
- How our attractions reveal the deepest parts of our beings: both those parts we reject — and those we embrace
- The single decision which is almost guaranteed to transform our relationship future
Module 5: Learn the Skills of Deeper Dating & Discover How to Transform the Great Saboteurs of Healthy Love (Recorded October 13)
You will learn how to bring the power, authenticity and magic of your Core Gifts right into the day to day reality of your search for love — and to all your relationships. You will develop a “toolkit” of skills which will help turn your dating life into an adventure of growth.
- The seven most important skills of Deeper Dating
- Modern dating for mature singles
- How dating differs for men and women
- Learn new and concrete Deeper Dating skills specifically designed for online dating, dating events, social gatherings and day to day life — with checklists, suggestions, exercises and “field trips” for each of these venues
- Engage in “mindful field trips” which will help illumine old patterns and help you develop new ones to move you closer to real love
- Learn about The Wave; the single greatest saboteur of healthy new love — and what to do when it hits
- Learn why the standard understanding of “fear of intimacy” does us a grave disservice, and why we don’t need to get beyond our fear of intimacy in order to find love
Module 6: Discovering Your Sexual & Romantic Core Gifts
How to Build Sexual & Romantic Attraction to People Who Are Good for You (Recorded October 20)
You will learn specific tools and techniques for deepening your sexual, romantic, emotional and spiritual connection to people who are good for you. Exciting research findings and current intimacy theory offer us tremendous opportunities for bringing greater passion, erotic joy, tenderness and humanity to the way we love.
- And learn to embrace one of your essential sexual Core Gifts
- The AHA technique, a powerful, simple technique to profoundly deepen intimacy in your romantic relationship — or any relationship at all
- Specific research-based techniques for deepening and intensifying sexual and romantic connection with a partner
- How to work with attractions that threaten to knock you off balance
- The two most important questions for bringing deeper humanity, love and sexual depth into your relationship
Module 7: Being Loved & Loving Into Fullness
Acknowledgements & Visioning Your Next Steps (Recorded October 27)
In this final module, you will reflect on your learning, growth and changes during this course. Through a set of powerful and evocative exercises, you will deepen your understanding of your most essential Core Gifts, and chart the next steps in your own intimacy journey.
- Find new ways to express your deepest intimacy gifts and how to negotiate the wounds and challenges that surround them
- Share with other class members the Core Gifts you have seen in them
- Receive guidance from your own deeper self — and your loved ones — to help you take concrete next steps in your deeper journey to love
- Identify sources of support for your deeper journey into intimacy now that the course is ending
The Lifelong Love Bonus Collection
In addition to Ken’s transformational 7-part virtual course, you’ll receive these powerful training sessions with leading visionaries and teachers. These bonus sessions complement the course — and take your understanding and practice to an even deeper level.
Finding Lasting Love After Your Breakup or Divorce
Audio Dialogue With Ken Page and Katherine Woodward Thomas
If you’ve been through a breakup or divorce and are seeking new and wonderful love, then this interview is for you. Ken’s good friend Katherine Woodward Thomas is The New York Times bestselling author of Conscious Uncoupling: 5 Steps to Living Happily Even After and the national bestseller, Calling in “The One:” 7 Weeks to Attract the Love of Your Life. With wisdom, insight and an unparalleled understanding of the experience of finding love after a breakup, Katherine will offer life-changing guidance and inspiration to every listener who has the hope of a new beginning — and the fear of repeating the pains of the past. Not to be missed.
Katherine Woodward Thomas, MA, MFT is author of The New York Times bestseller, Conscious Uncoupling, and the national bestseller, Calling in “The One.” A licensed psychotherapist, she has taught hundreds of thousands to find greater happiness in love. Her work is devoted to discovering inspired, innovative and evolving pathways toward the creation of more wholehearted, honorable and harmonious relations.
Co-creator and co-leader of the Feminine Power transformative courses, she is creator of the Conscious Uncoupling five week program, and cohost of the Women on the Edge of Evolution teleseries. She also is lead trainer of the Certified Calling in “The One” Coaches Training Program.
How to Develop Deep Attention: The Key to True Intimacy
Audio Dialogue With Ken Page and Edward Hallowell, MD
In this very special interview, Dr. Hallowell will teach you how to overcome the seductions of distraction to create deeper and richer relationships in your life. Dr. Hallowell is one of the world’s most renowned experts in ADHD — and one of the wisest, most inspiring modern teachers on the subject of love and intimacy. According to Dr. Hallowell, "It is impossible to overestimate the power of connection... but it cannot develop if people are unable to sustain attention over time." In this not-to-be-missed interview with one of the greatest thought leaders of our time, you’ll learn simple, powerful ways to protect the quality of your relationships — and your life.
Dr. Edward Hallowell is a practicing psychiatrist and founder of the Hallowell Center for Cognitive and Emotional Health in Sudbury, Massachusetts, New York City, San Francisco and Seattle. A former instructor of Harvard Medical School, he is the author of 20 books, including the bestsellers: ADD: Driven to Distraction, Delivered from Distraction, CrazyBusy and most recently, Driven to Distraction at Work. Dr. Hallowell has ADHD himself.
The Insights We Most Want to Share With Single People Seeking Love
Audio Dialogue With Ken Page, Harville Hendrix, PhD and Helen LaKelly Hunt, PhD
In this unique and inspiring session, Ken is joined by Harville Hendrix, PhD and Helen LaKelly Hunt, PhD two of the greatest thinkers, authors and visionaries on the subject of intimate relationships. Harville, Helen and Ken discuss how to use the state of "singledom" as a rite of passage into deeper intimacy, as they explore the tremendous opportunities for growth for single people who are committed to deepening their search for love. They discuss how our deepest wounds intertwine with our greatest gifts, and explore ways of working through negativity for everyone who seeks lasting love. This discussion is rich with warmth, inspiration and insight, as all three participants speak intimately from their own personal experiences.
Harville Hendrix, PhD is a Clinical Pastoral Counselor who is known internationally for his work with couples. He and his wife Helen LaKelly Hunt, PhD co-created Imago Relationship Therapy and developed the concept of “Conscious Partnership.” Their partnership and collaboration has resulted in nine books on intimate relationships and parenting. Harville holds a PhD in Psychology and Theology from the University of Chicago and has received an honorary doctorate and two distinguished service awards. Harville has appeared on many national television shows including seventeen guest appearances on The Oprah Winfrey Show. Harville is the author of Getting the Love You Want: A Guide for Couples and Keeping the Love You Find: A Personal Guide, both New York Times bestsellers.
Helen LaKelly Hunt, PhD was elected to the Women’s Hall of Fame for her dedication to the empowerment of women as an author and activist. She is founder of The Sister Fund, a small, private foundation that supports fullness of life for women and girls. She is co-founder of the Institute for Imago Relationship Therapy and coauthor of several bestsellers with her husband, Harville Hendrix.
Bringing Deeper Wisdom to Online Dating
Audio Dialogue With Ken Page and Julie Spira
In this one-of-a-kind dialogue, Ken will speak with Julie Spira, America’s Top Online Dating Expert and Digital Matchmaker® about where to look online to find people who share your commitment to personal and spiritual growth. In this discussion, you will learn skills, tools and techniques to help you harness the tremendous power of the internet to find a partner who touches you spiritually and emotionally. We will also talk about how to create an experience of inner emotional safety as you learn to navigate the wild and relatively new world of online dating.
Julie Spira is known worldwide as a leading online dating expert and dating coach. She’s the author of the bestselling online dating book, The Perils of Cyber-Dating: Confessions of a Hopeful Romantic Looking for Love Online. As a dating expert and coach, Julie’s advice has reached millions. Julie Spira has received numerous awards and honors including being named one of the “Top 10 Columnists to follow on Twitter” and was listed as one of the “Top 100 Most Influential People in Social Media” in Fast Company and was named one of “America’s Ultimate Experts” by Woman’s Worl d magazine. Julie sits on the board of several nonprofit organizations in Los Angeles and was the recipient of the WOW (Wonderful Outstanding Woman) Award by JBBBS in Los Angeles for her philanthropic and mentoring work in the community.
What Graduates Are Saying About Ken Page...
I was deeply moved over and over again during the course with Ken as he lead me/us into the core of my most intimate self just waiting to be treasured. Ken you are a heart-centered, clear and generous guide for love and relationship.
— Susann Taylor Shier, Santa Monica, California
This course helped me shine the light on something precious in myself that had never been fully honored in my past relationships. Ken was a sensitive, powerful guide in this process, and I will always be grateful for his teachings.
— Toni, California
The course with Ken has been life-altering. The very aspects of myself that I was ashamed of and felt were my flaws, Ken came to teach me, were in fact my Core Gifts to the world... I feel more empowered and confident, with a deeper sense of myself.
— Helen, Australia
Ken’s compassion and expertise in this sensitive area of finding love based on attraction of inspiration included ideas and suggestions completely new to me. I felt engaged as I don’t when just reading someone’s book; it was a highly interactive course.
— Carol Browning, Ashland, Oregon
The course helped me to be open about my emotional experiences and share them with others with my tears and be willing to go on with the example of others. I know that I’m not alone to search for love in such a profound way that Ken taught us.
— Jana Plchova, Saint Barthélemy, Guadeloupe
This course... was a revelation in its intimacy. I experienced a heart transmission from Ken, is the only way I can put it, and was able to experience a new tenderness toward myself — getting beneath my self-criticism to find a Core Gift...
— Barbara, Ontario, Canada
I wish this course didn’t have to end because I learned so much. The biggest part of this journey is beginning to understand and embrace the gifts I have been given. [Ken’s teachings] have a healing quality because there is no judgment in the message.
— Kandice Kidd, Chicago, Illinois
This course has created a huge shift for me in the way I view relationships. It has replaced fear, self-judgment and confusion with understanding and consciousness. I now understand how to move forward and find a partner who is a real fit for the real me.
— Susan L., New York, New York
I am in awe of how you work, Ken; the way you can follow essence down to some key source of love/healing/wounds/gifts. Since the course started I am more aware and accepting of my heart, its voice, its feelings and more patient with love and myself...
— Teresa B., San Francisco, California
Ken, I am absolutely, unquestioningly, majestically, magically and thoroughly grateful for you, your work and all the healing that has occurred for me through your writing and workshops.
— Gordon Tweedie, Portland, Maine
Here’s What You’ll Receive
Seven 90-Minute Recorded Class Sessions With Ken Page
Experience a rare opportunity to be mentored and learn with renowned author and psychotherapist Ken Page — from the comfort of your own home. Each class session will help you create the specific skills and abilities to change the way you think about dating and relationships forever.
Seven PDF Transcripts of Class Sessions
In addition to the high-quality MP3 audios, you’ll also receive the entire class transcription in PDF format. You can then review, print and highlight the most important insights and practices you were given.
Exercises and Questions for Each Lesson
After each lesson, you’ll have the option to do related exercises, practice new tools and answer questions in order to accelerate your learning and integrate each lesson.
The Lifelong Love Bonus Collection
- Finding Lasting Love After Your Breakup or Divorce
Audio Dialogue With Ken Page and Katherine Woodward Thomas
- How to Develop Deep Attention: The Key to True Intimacy
Audio Dialogue With Ken Page and Ed Hallowell, MD
- The Insights We Most Want to Share With Single People Seeking Love
Audio Dialogue With Ken Page, Harville Hendrix, PhD and Helen LaKelly Hunt, PhD
- Bringing Deeper Wisdom to Online Dating
Audio Dialogue With Ken Page and Julie Spira
An Unprecedented Opportunity to Join The Wisdom Path to Finding Lifelong Love Virtual Course
We feel honored that Ken Page has chosen to partner with The Shift Network to offer this exclusive online training. This is a rare opportunity to learn from an author and renowned psychotherapist whose powerful insights and pioneering work are helping us bring dating to the next level of soulful depth, exciting discovery and vulnerable authenticity.
Through this powerful online format, you’ll not only save time and money on workshop costs (plus travel, accommodations and meals — which would cost thousands of dollars), you’ll also be able to benefit from Ken’s incredible teachings and exercises from the comfort of your home, at your own pace!
If you are serious about transforming your love life and accessing your “core gifts,” then you owe it to yourself, your loved ones — and our world — to take this one-of-a-kind training.
If you’re ready to take the next step in evolving yourself, click the register button below to reserve your space now.
More Praise for Ken Page...
Ken Page is my new relationship guru!
— Katherine Woodward Thomas, New York Times Bestselling Author of Calling In "The One" and Conscious Uncoupling: 5 Steps to Living Happily Even After
Deeper Dating is a beautiful journey into deeper intimacy, an inspiring and important guidebook for everyone seeking authentic love.
— Judith Orloff, MD, Author of The Ecstasy of Surrender
Deeper Dating was a revelation for me... If you desire a soulmate, lead with your soul. So many of us come from that place of looking for that person who ‘completes’ us, but Ken helped me to see that I desire a partner who ‘reflects’ the best in me. Show your core gifts of vulnerability and authenticity and you’ll find a partner who does the same.
— Chip Conley, Author of Emotional Equations and Peak
Deeper Dating is counterintuitive, and it is among the best [work] for succeeding in finding and keeping love we have seen. According to its author, the core attractor for the person best suited for a great love is the part of you with which you may be most uncomfortable: your vulnerability and authenticity... Not only does he encourage you to leave your defenses at home, he shows you... just how to prepare for the ultimate relationship with someone who is just right for you.
— Harville Hendrix, PhD and Helen LaKelly Hunt, PhD, Authors of Keeping the Love You Find and Making Marriage Simple
About Ken Page
Ken Page, LCSW is a renowned psychotherapist, popular Psychology Today blogger, Huffington Post blogger and author of the bestselling book Deeper Dating: How to Drop the Games of Seduction and Discover the Power of Intimacy. He has been featured in O, The Oprah Magazine, Oprah.com, The New York Times, Cosmopolitan, Fox News, WPIX-TV News The Advocate, The Chicago Tribune and more. Page has led hundreds of workshops on intimacy and spirituality for thousands of participants of all ages, backgrounds, sexual orientations and gender identities.
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